Kendrick Lamar’s Super Bowl Performance: If You Missed the Message, You Missed the Mark

 

Peace, blessings, and love to you all. Seeing so many negative comments about the Super Bowl performance is truly eye-opening—it’s a reminder of what the Most High revealed to us long ago. Racism is real, whether people choose to acknowledge it or not. Kendrick Lamar didn’t just put on a show; he delivered a message. And if you didn’t catch it, it simply wasn’t meant for you.

In a world where Black artistry is often watered down for mainstream consumption, Kendrick did what he does best: showed up, unapologetic, and delivered a message for us, to us. From the song choices to the symbolism, every detail of his set spoke volumes about Black identity, resilience, and power. While some might’ve seen “just a rap performance,” those who understood felt the weight of the moment.

A Performance Rooted in Blackness

Kendrick has never been one to cater to the masses. His music has always been layered—meant for those who are willing to listen beyond the beat.

At the Super Bowl, he didn’t compromise. He gave us:
✔ Unfiltered Black storytelling
✔ A visual representation of resilience
✔ A performance rooted in OUR culture—not for approval, but for impact

Some people watched it and kept scrolling. Others saw a cultural statement, a message, and a moment of Black artistry standing firm on one of the world’s biggest stages.

If You Know, You Know.

Too often, mainstream media tries to erase or soften our impact. But Kendrick didn’t just entertain—he made a statement. And if you didn’t feel it, you weren’t the audience he was speaking to so if you missed the message, you missed the mark.

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From the wide-angle lens to the wireless mic and the battery handle, DJI really tried to give creators everything we need in one sleek box. I was honestly excited to see what all the buzz was about—and if it really lives up to the hype for vlogging, content creation, and day-to-day shooting.

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January 1st Isn’t the Bible’s New Year—Here’s When It Really Begins

 

 

Peace, blessings, and love to you all! Hold on tight for this one. I hope you are having a great holiday break, but I have to share something I’ve learned. If you don’t know, for the last year and a half, God (Yah) has called me out of Christianity and into His truth. At first, it was scary—I questioned it, I challenged it, and every single time, The Most High kept revealing everything I asked him to reveal.

After many days (and months) of fasting and praying, I made the choice to trust His Word over tradition. It wasn’t easy, but it was necessary. And I thank The Most High for waking me up from what I was blindly walking into—an oppressive state of mind. It may come as a shock to some, but I haven’t lost my mind—if anything, I found it through the Word and months of deep studying and research. And one of the biggest things He revealed to me? The truth about the so-called "New Year" vs. His true New Year. And today, I’m here to share it with you. Let’s get into it.

 

Understanding the New Year: From Pagan Origins to the Biblical New Year in Abib

As many celebrate January 1st as the "New Year," few realize that this date is rooted in ancient pagan traditions rather than biblical instruction. If we desire to follow the Most High’s ways, we must examine the origins of this man-made holiday and align ourselves with the true New Year as established in Scripture, which begins in the spring with the month of Abib.

 

Pagan Origins of the January 1st New Year

The modern New Year celebration is deeply rooted in pagan customs that date back to ancient civilizations. In Ancient Babylon (2000 B.C.), the New Year was originally celebrated during the spring equinox, aligning with agricultural cycles. Similarly, the Romans initially observed the New Year on March 1st, but in 45 B.C., Julius Caesar reformed the calendar and moved it to January 1st. This change was made in honor of Janus, the Roman god of beginnings and transitions, who was depicted as a two-faced deity—one looking forward and the other looking back (sounds about right).

Many traditional New Year customs, such as feasting, drinking, and making resolutions, stem from these pagan festivities and were later absorbed into Western society. Yet, biblical believers should ask themselves—should we continue to celebrate a day rooted in false gods and traditions, or should we return to the Most High’s calendar?

 

The Biblical New Year: The Month of Abib

Unlike the man-made calendars, The Most High established the true beginning of the year in the month of Abib, which means “green ears” (referring to ripening barley). This occurs in spring, not winter.

• Exodus 12:2 – “This month shall be unto you the beginning of months: it shall be the first month of the year to you.”
• Exodus 13:4 – “This day came ye out in the month Abib.”
• Deuteronomy 16:1 – “Observe the month of Abib, and keep the passover unto the Lord thy God: for in the month of Abib the Lord thy God brought thee forth out of Egypt by night”

Key Facts About the Biblical New Year:

• The new year begins in Abib (spring) when barley is in its green ear stage.
• The new moon signals the beginning of the Feast of Unleavened Bread and Passover.
• The biblical calendar is based on the moon, not the Gregorian calendar

 

Choosing Rest Over Celebration: How I Reclaim Peace During the Holiday Season

 

 

Peace, blessings, and love family. As the world rushes to deck the halls, exchange gifts, and prepare for the “new year, new me” frenzy, I’ve chosen a different path—one of rest, reflection, and intentional living. As an Child of of the Most High, I don’t celebrate pagan holidays like Christmas and New Year’s, and instead of being swept up in the holiday chaos, I take this time to focus on what truly matters: my spiritual and mental well-being.

In this post, I’ll share a brief insight into the origins of these holidays and offer practical ways to embrace rest and self-care during a season that often feels overwhelming.

 

The Origins of Christmas and New Year’s: A Quick Insight

The holiday season is filled with traditions that many people follow without questioning their origins. Here’s a brief look at where these holidays come from:

 

Christmas

While Christmas is widely celebrated as the birth of Christ, historical evidence shows that December 25th was chosen to align with pagan winter solstice festivals, particularly Saturnalia, a Roman celebration honoring the god Saturn. Traditions like decorating trees and exchanging gifts have roots in pagan rituals, not biblical teachings.

 

New Year’s Day

The modern New Year’s celebration on January 1st traces back to ancient Rome, where it was dedicated to Janus, the god of beginnings and transitions. The Gregorian calendar’s New Year does not align with biblical or agricultural cycles, which often marked the true beginnings of a year.

Understanding these origins has led me to step away from these celebrations and focus on practices that align with my beliefs.

 

Why I Choose to Hibernate During the Holidays

This season is often marketed as a time of joy, but for many, it’s a time of stress, overspending, and burnout. By choosing rest, I protect my peace and set the tone for a truly intentional year ahead. Here’s how I approach this time of year:

• Spiritual Alignment: Instead of holiday festivities, I use this time to draw closer to God. Whether it’s through prayer, reading scripture, or meditating on His promises, I align my heart with what truly matters.

• Unplugging from Consumerism: The holiday season is filled with sales pitches urging us to buy more, do more, and be more. I’ve found freedom in opting out. By saying no to holiday spending, I can focus on experiences and connections that enrich my life.

• Embracing Rest and Reflection: The end of the calendar year doesn’t have to mean rushing to check off resolutions. I use this time to reflect on the past year, celebrate personal growth, and plan for the future at my own pace.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed or seeking a different approach to the holiday season, here are 5 tips to help you reclaim your peace:

• 1. Set Boundaries: It’s okay to say no to holiday parties or traditions that drain you. Protect your time and energy by only committing to what feels right for you.

• Create a Restful Routine: Turn your home into a sanctuary by embracing cozy mornings, journaling, and moments of stillness. Light a candle, sip tea, and let yourself slow down.

• Focus on Nourishment: Instead of indulging in heavy holiday meals, focus on nourishing your body with foods that energize you. Warm soups, herbal teas, and fresh produce can be grounding and comforting.

• Reflect on Your Year: Use this time for honest reflection. What went well this year? What did you learn? What do you want to carry into the next season of your life?

• Plan with Intention, Not Pressure: The “new year, new me” mentality can be overwhelming. Instead of setting unrealistic goals, focus on meaningful intentions that align with your values and purpose.

My message to you, whether or not you celebrate the holidays, remember that you are not obligated to participate in traditions that no longer align with your values. You have the power to create your own rhythm and reclaim this season as a time of rest, reflection, and intentionality. 

 

I encourage you to take a step back, focus on what truly matters, and enter the next season of your life refreshed and renewed.

Why I Left Everything: My Truth, My Journey

Life is full of pivotal moments that challenge us to reevaluate everything we thought we knew. For me, stepping away from full time ministry, my business, and blogging wasn’t just a decision; it was a calling to step into a deeper journey of self-discovery and truth. In this post, I’ll share why I left everything behind, the lessons I’ve learned along the way, and how this transformation is shaping my path forward.

Walking away from everything I’d built wasn’t easy. I had spent years cultivating a platform and a community, but something in me felt unsettled. I realized that everything I've been tough, was basically a lie. My faith, my identity, and my truth needed to be reexamined, and that meant letting go to make space for something new

This past year has been one of the most challenging yet rewarding experiences of my life. I spent time in reflection, dove deep into scripture and history, and explored what it truly means to live authentically. Here are a few of the lessons that stood out:

1. Authenticity Requires Courage: Being true to yourself means confronting uncomfortable truths and making bold choices.
2. Faith is a Journey, Not a Destination: Denouncing Christianity didn’t mean losing my connection to the Most High. Instead, it deepened as I explored faith on my terms.
3. Growth Requires Letting Go: Sometimes, you have to leave behind what no longer serves you to step into your true purpose.

As I return to blogging and sharing my journey online, you can expect content that is deeply personal, honest, and purposeful. I’ll be focusing on:

• Bible-based reflections that inspire and challenge.
• Black history and the importance of knowing where we come from.
• Lifestyle content that aligns with intentional living.
• Resources to help you embrace your truth and walk confidently in your purpose.

This isn’t just about sharing my story—it’s about building a community of truth-seekers who are ready to embrace authenticity and live with purpose.

My hope is that my journey resonates with someone who feels stuck, lost, or unsure of their next step. If that’s you, know that you’re not alone. Transformation isn’t easy, but it’s worth it.

Join Me on This Journey

Thank you for taking the time to read my story. If you’re ready to embrace your truth, live authentically, and explore what it means to align your life with purpose, let’s do this together.

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5 Ways Mothers Can Embrace Winter Rest (Without the Holiday Chaos)

 

 

 

By Zak L. Grace | AuthenticallyZ

I used to get caught up in the holiday pressure—decorating, scheduling, overgiving—only to end up tired and disconnected. Now? I look at this winter season as what it truly is: a time for slowing down, resting, and reconnecting with Yah and my family.

 

If you’re feeling pulled in a million directions or unsure how to navigate this season without falling into the trap of stress and tradition, here are 5 grounded ways to shift your energy toward peace and purpose.

 

1. Honor Your Relationship with the Most High

 

Winter is a set-apart time—a time to pause, reflect, and listen.

This is when I draw closer to Yah, not through man-made holidays, but through intentional stillness. Read Scripture, pray, and create space to hear His voice.

You don’t need lights or festivities to feel connected—just truth, stillness, and the Word.

"Be still, and know that I am Elohim." – Psalm 46:10

 

2. Release the Pressure of Traditions

 

Let go of the pressure to perform.

Ask yourself: Does this tradition align with truth? Or is it something I’m doing out of habit or guilt?

When you let go of traditions rooted in stress, your soul can breathe.

"Be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind..." – Romans 12:2

3. Embrace Community, Not Overload

 

You don’t have to do everything alone—or everything at all.

Delegate tasks, say no when you need to, and embrace quiet moments with people who bring peace, not pressure.

This season isn’t about appearances—it’s about alignment.

 

4. Set Boundaries & Keep Them Sacred

 

Perfection is a trap. You’re not called to impress—you’re called to rest.

Set clear expectations for yourself and your family.

If something drains you more than it fills you, it’s okay to let it go. Protect your peace.

 

5. Make Room for Real Rest

 

The winter season naturally calls us to slow down—so honor that.

Rest isn’t laziness—it’s obedience to the rhythm Yah created.

Take naps, journal, take walks, do nothing—and don’t apologize for it.

When you rest, you show your children what it looks like to live aligned.

You don’t need to wait until January 1 to reset. You can reclaim your peace now.

This winter, let’s choose rest over rituals, peace over pressure, and truth over tradition.

 

Let it be a season of renewal, not burnout.

What to Wear for Your Fall Family Photos

 

Fall is a season of warmth, vibrant colors, and cozy moments, making it the perfect time for a family photo-shoot. If you're a mom blogger preparing to capture the essence of autumn with your loved ones, choosing the right outfits is key to creating timeless memories. In this blog post, we'll explore seven tips to help you and your family look effortlessly stylish during your fall photoshoot, featuring some fantastic finds on Amazon.

1. Coordinate Colors, Don't Match: While matching outfits can be tempting, opt for coordinating colors that complement each other instead. Embrace the rich tones of fall by incorporating warm hues like deep reds, mustard yellows, and earthy greens(which is my all time favorite). This creates a visually appealing and harmonious look for your family.

Amazon Find: Women's Long Sleeve V-Neck Sweater in Burgundy or Cream

2. Layers Add Depth: Fall weather can be unpredictable, so consider layering your outfits. This not only adds depth and interest to your photos but also allows you to adjust to changing temperatures. Think about scarves, cardigans, or stylish jackets that complement your chosen color palette.

Amazon Find: Boy's Plaid Button-Up Shirt with Hooded Vest

3. Texture Matters: Incorporate different textures to add dimension to your photos. Consider fabrics like knit, denim, or faux fur for a cozy and visually appealing touch. Textured accessories, such as a statement belt or chunky scarf, can elevate your look without overpowering it.

Amazon Find: Kids' Cable Knit Sweater

4. Accessorize Thoughtfully: Accessories can make or break an outfit. Choose accessories that enhance the fall theme, such as wide-brimmed hats, leather boots, or statement jewelry. Be mindful not to overdo it – a few well-chosen accessories can go a long way.

Amazon Find: Women's Wide Brim Wool Fedora Hat

5. Consider Your Setting: Think about the location of your photoshoot and let it inspire your outfit choices. If you're surrounded by nature and foliage, earthy tones may work best. In an urban setting, you might opt for more modern and streamlined looks. Tailoring your outfits to the environment ensures a cohesive and visually pleasing result.

Amazon Find: Kid’s Fit Corduroy Pants

6. Timeless Classics Never Fail: When in doubt, stick to timeless classics. Pleated pants, crisp denim, neutral sweaters, and well-fitted blouses never go out of style. These pieces can be easily mixed and matched, ensuring a cohesive and polished look for your family.

Amazon Find: Women's Classic Pleated Wide Leg Pants

7. Comfort is Key: While style is important, comfort should not be overlooked. Ensure that you and your family feel at ease in your chosen outfits, especially if you have little ones. Happy and comfortable family members will radiate genuine joy in your photos.

Amazon Find: Kids' Fleece-Lined Leggings

As a mom blogger, fall family photo shoots are an opportunity to create beautiful, lasting memories. By following these tips and exploring the suggested Amazon finds, you can confidently showcase your family's unique style while embracing the warmth of the fall season. So, gather your loved ones, dress in style, and let the beauty of autumn unfold in your family photos.

After School Activities for Kids

 

As a single mom, finding creative and educational after-school activities for your kids can sometimes feel like a juggling act and I know it can be tempting to give your toddler an electronic device. One thing I’ve learned in this journey of motherhood is, you want to keep them engaged, entertained, and learning, all while managing your household. But fear not, I'm here to help! I've put together a list of 15 fantastic after-school activities that you and your little ones can enjoy right in the comfort of your home.

1. Art and Craft Adventures: 

Gather some art supplies and watch your child's creativity blossom. Whether it's drawing, painting, or crafting, this activity is a wonderful way to encourage self-expression and imaginative thinking.

2. Reading Fun: 

Create a cozy reading nook with a comfy chair and a stack of books. Reading time not only fosters a love for literature but also provides a quiet and peaceful atmosphere for bonding.

3. Kitchen Helper: 

Invite your child to join you in the kitchen for some cooking or baking. It's an excellent opportunity to teach them valuable life skills while having loads of fun.

4. At Home Science Lab: 

Turn your home into a science lab with simple experiments. Spark their curiosity and fascination for the world around them.

5. Gardening Helper: 

Nurture an appreciation for nature by starting a mini-garden or becoming a plant mom. Whether it's a few potted plants or a small outdoor garden, kids can learn about responsibility and the wonders of growth.

6. Jam Session: 

Introduce your child to the world of music with lessons in playing instruments like the piano, guitar, or even singing. You might have a budding musician on your hands!

7. Dance Session: 

Set up a dance space and let your little one groove to their heart's content. Dancing promotes physical fitness and self-expression.

8. At-Home Exercise: 

Share the benefits of physical fitness through kid-friendly exercise routines. It's a fantastic way to keep them active and healthy.

9. Board Games: 

Stimulate their minds with classic board games, puzzles, or even chess. These games enhance critical thinking and problem-solving skills.

10.Bible Venture:  

Explore the bible in a new way by making the bible stories interactive. One of my favorite things is to open up the bible app that has several resources for children. This makes learning the basics stories both educational and enjoyable.

11. Language Lessons: 

Expand your child's horizons by introducing them to a new language. You can utilize apps and online resources to make the process engaging, interactive and even you picking up a new language. 

12. Nature Scavenger Hunts: Unleash their inner explorer with fun and educational scavenger hunts. Whether indoors or outdoors, these adventures offer a unique way to discover the beauty of the world.

13. Play Doh Session:

Create an area on the table or floor using plain white paper where your child can use their imagination to enhance their creative learning skills.

14. Photography Fun: 

Teach your little one the basics of photography using a simple camera or smartphone. You'll be amazed at the unique perspectives they capture.

15. Explore Lovevery: Have fun with physics by using Lovevery's 'The Play Guide' modular wooden ramp set. Encourage your child to make predictions about what will happen. This set has helped improve my son's building and critical thinking skills.You can find all of their play guides using the link here

Single moms, remember that spending quality time with your kids while engaging in these after-school activities can create lasting memories and foster their growth. These activities aren't just fun; they're opportunities to connect, educate, and inspire. So, whether it's art, science, or a culinary experiment, you've got this! Enjoy the journey of learning and growing together.

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Safety Tips for Single Moms: I Got Stalked as a Single Mom

 

 

Hey there, sis! I've got a gripping story to share with you today, and I can hardly believe it happened to me. It's a story of being stalked, a situation that had my heart racing like never before. But, let me tell you, I'm beyond grateful for the grace and mercy that kept me safe throughout this ordeal. In this video, I'll recount the chilling experience of being stalked and shed light on the safety precautions every single mom should consider. Trust me; this is a story you won't want to miss.

 

Top 5 Safety Tools for Women

1.  Home Self Defense SABRE pepper gel

 

2.  ZUMIMALL Security Cameras Wireless Outdoor with Magnetic Mount

 

3. SABRE Lipstick Pepper Spray

 

4. Addalock the Original Portable Door Lock 

 

5. MDMAK Door Stop Alarm with 120DB Siren Door Stop for Home & Travel

 

 

Single Motherhood 101

As a single mother, I know that the world has a lot to say about single motherhood. But I believe that only a single mother can truly speak on this topic.

 

If you are a single mom, I want you to know that you are not alone. There is beauty in our journey, even when we can't see the light at the end of the tunnel. You got this.

 

In this video, I want to discuss where you can start as a single mother. I know it may be hard, and I know it may be difficult. But I want to create a safe space here to help you thrive.

 

 

Here are a few tips for single mothers:

• Take care of yourself. This is easier said than done, but it's important to make time for yourself, even if it's just for a few minutes each day. Make sure to get enough sleep, eat healthy foods, and get some type of exercise in.
• Set realistic goals. Don't try to do too much at once. Start by setting small, achievable goals for yourself. As you accomplish those goals, you can set bigger ones.
• Don't be afraid to ask for help. There are many resources available to single mothers. If you need help with childcare, finances, or anything else, don't be afraid to ask for it.
•  Find your support system. This could be family, friends, other single moms, or a support group. It's important to have people who understand what you're going through and who can offer support and encouragement. If you are looking for a space, join our waitlist today to the "You Got This Club" here
  

Being a single mother is not easy, but it is possible to thrive. By following these tips and surrounding yourself with a supportive community, you can create a happy and fulfilling life for yourself and your children.

Remember, you are not alone. There is a community of Black single mothers who are here to support you and help you thrive.