By Zak L. Grace | AuthenticallyZ
I used to get caught up in the holiday pressure—decorating, scheduling, overgiving—only to end up tired and disconnected. Now? I look at this winter season as what it truly is: a time for slowing down, resting, and reconnecting with Yah and my family.
If you’re feeling pulled in a million directions or unsure how to navigate this season without falling into the trap of stress and tradition, here are 5 grounded ways to shift your energy toward peace and purpose.
1. Honor Your Relationship with the Most High
Winter is a set-apart time—a time to pause, reflect, and listen.
This is when I draw closer to Yah, not through man-made holidays, but through intentional stillness. Read Scripture, pray, and create space to hear His voice.
You don’t need lights or festivities to feel connected—just truth, stillness, and the Word.
"Be still, and know that I am Elohim." – Psalm 46:10
2. Release the Pressure of Traditions
Let go of the pressure to perform.
Ask yourself: Does this tradition align with truth? Or is it something I’m doing out of habit or guilt?
When you let go of traditions rooted in stress, your soul can breathe.
"Be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind..." – Romans 12:2
3. Embrace Community, Not Overload
You don’t have to do everything alone—or everything at all.
Delegate tasks, say no when you need to, and embrace quiet moments with people who bring peace, not pressure.
This season isn’t about appearances—it’s about alignment.
4. Set Boundaries & Keep Them Sacred
Perfection is a trap. You’re not called to impress—you’re called to rest.
Set clear expectations for yourself and your family.
If something drains you more than it fills you, it’s okay to let it go. Protect your peace.
5. Make Room for Real Rest
The winter season naturally calls us to slow down—so honor that.
Rest isn’t laziness—it’s obedience to the rhythm Yah created.
Take naps, journal, take walks, do nothing—and don’t apologize for it.
When you rest, you show your children what it looks like to live aligned.
You don’t need to wait until January 1 to reset. You can reclaim your peace now.
This winter, let’s choose rest over rituals, peace over pressure, and truth over tradition.
Let it be a season of renewal, not burnout.
